Talking behind a person's back or straight on the face ???

I was watching Jab We Met with my relatives over the last weekend. I ve seen the movie 9 times but still cannot get enough of it.

During the latter half of the movie, one can see, in the Shimla hotel, Kareena shouts at Anshuman, using a foul language. Well foul language may come second in this particular context. I want to focus more on the aspect of taking out your anger on a particular person.

You can also observe, Kareena feels a little bit better after she finishes shouting at Anshuman.

I have seen orkut profiles of many people, they say, they hate people who speak behind their back.

I have so many observations against such messages:

> Firstly if a person is humble, down to earth, unbiased, I bet, no one will talk behind his back. If a person thinks people can speak behind his back, he must be getting it wrong somewhere or the other. Right?

> Secondly, as you can see from the movie, Jab We Met, if speaking behind back (atleast not on the face) can make you a bit relieved off tension/headache, what is stopping you then?


Part 2 of the post...

In this part of the post I just try to give a thought whether to speak behind the back of a person, or straight on his face..

I think both the sides are equally balanced.

You speak straight on the face or speak behind the back, you end up being a loser on either case.

Firstly, if you speak straight on the face, you may end up losing your job (at the max).

If the person, is doing wrong and you remain silent and speak behind the person's back, you may end up being a silent spectator and may even get screwed up once that guy gets noticed.

Whatever may be the case, just make sure, your head is free from such silly stuffs..

And regarding Jab We Met, the movie rocks !!!!

Conclusion::: In a corporate world, if you want to survive, then I feel, keeping mum is a better option.

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Cheers